The readings from scripture
for today are about service; service and hospitality. As God`s people, we all know that service is
tied in directly with the teachings of our Christian faith, yet, it is all too
easy to develop a wrong understanding of service. Community can sometimes be a challenging
place to be because it is made of people with many different gifts, different strengths,
personalities, and views. So unless we
are careful, in our ministry or service to others, we can run into conflicts as
to how things should be done. Over the
years, I’ve encountered a few instances where some have even moved away from Christian
involvements because their view conflicted with those they were working with.
I really like what Rick
Warren has to say about Christian service in his book “The Purpose Driven
Life”. He says: “Christian servants must focus on their mission, not about what others
are doing. In good Christian service, we
don’t criticize, we don’t compare, we don’t compete with other Christians.”
Rick Warren says that competition
among God’s servants is illogical for many reasons. We’re all on the same team. Our goal is to make God look
good, not ourselves. The mission cannot
be accomplished unless we all work together in the common faith we share.
The first reading from
Genesis is a perfect example of service and hospitality. Abraham has visitors from the Lord. And in the tradition of his people, he and
his family offer hospitality and service to their visitors. Abraham invites them in, gives water to wash
and cool their feet from the desert sand, and then offers them
nourishment.
Abraham and his family go
out of their way to prepare fresh bread, and kill the calf for them to
eat. Abraham did not do it all
himself. He worked with his wife Sarah
and his servants for the preparation, each doing their own tasks for their
guests. As a result, they all found
favor with God. What if Sarah said to
Abraham: “Make your own bread. I’m busy
right now.” I don’t think that would
have worked very well. The guests would
probably have got up and left. It worked
because each saw what needed to be done and contributed to its accomplishment.
Our gospel story is also
about service and hospitality. Jesus and
the twelve apostles make a visit to the home of Mary, Martha and Lazarus. How would you like to have an extra thirteen
guests for supper, and coming unannounced? I think that in its-self would cause me to be
a little frazzled. But we must remember;
these people are all good friends. They
shared the same faith. They are involved in the same mission. Jesus and the apostles would have stopped at
this home many times in the past, and they knew they would be welcomed there. They
would have shared many times together; so they
were all very comfortable with one another.
And the householders, Mary,
Martha and Lazarus, as they had done many times before, set out to make their
guests comfortable and to feel at home.
They each set out to do the service they felt was necessary at the
moment. The difficulty that came up had
nothing to do with the work that Martha was doing in the kitchen. The difficulty that came up was that Martha
got distracted by her younger sister who she thought was not being very helpful,
was not fulfilling her role. So she
started to complain.
When Martha complained to
Jesus that Mary was not doing her share, she temporarily lost her sense of
mission. Her focus was no longer on the service to be done, the mission to be
accomplished, but on what others were doing.
For some reason when we hear this gospel, most of us picture this scene as Martha in a hot kitchen by herself, doing all this work, while everyone else, including Mary, were sitting in the living room chatting and having fun. This certainly does not fit in with Jesus’ model of servant leadership that he speaks about previously in the gospel. What if we picture the scene with a kitchen buzzing with apostles and perhaps even neighbors who are all sharing in the tasks of preparing the meal. And then Martha sees Mary not fitting into what she feels is her defined role.
For some reason when we hear this gospel, most of us picture this scene as Martha in a hot kitchen by herself, doing all this work, while everyone else, including Mary, were sitting in the living room chatting and having fun. This certainly does not fit in with Jesus’ model of servant leadership that he speaks about previously in the gospel. What if we picture the scene with a kitchen buzzing with apostles and perhaps even neighbors who are all sharing in the tasks of preparing the meal. And then Martha sees Mary not fitting into what she feels is her defined role.
Rick Warren addressed this
issue. It’s not the job of a Christian
servant to evaluate the Master’s other servants. Martha forgot that what Jesus needed at that
particular moment from Mary was her attentiveness, her caring presence, her
listening heart.
Jesus’s words to Martha were
not meant to chastise her for her lack of performance. What she was doing was critically important, necessary
and good.
His words were to remind Martha
that service comes in many forms, and at that moment, what Mary was doing was
what was needed the most. “Mary
has chosen the better part which will not be taken from her.” Jesus was challenging Martha to change the
way she was looking at things.
To be a servant of Christ
requires that we must often make a mental shift in our thinking, a change in our
attitudes. God is more interested in us
using our gifts for His mission, versus directing others as to what we think
they should be doing.
As Christian servants, this
mental shift or change in attitudes is required so that we can begin to think
in the following manner about our role as servant:
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Servants must think more about others and
providing support than about themselves
·
Servants must focus more on the mission, their
work to be done, not on what others are doing.
·
Servants must see their ministry as a
response to serve Christ out of love, not to look or feel good about themselves.
·
Servants must see their ministry as an
opportunity to serve others from their strengths and gifts, not as an
obligation to be fulfilled.
St Paul summarizes these four
attitudinal changes in the reading we have just heard from Colossians: "I
became a servant for the sake of the Body, that is the Church, according to
God`s commission given to me, for you.
And that commission is to make God`s word fully known, teaching every
person in all wisdom, so that we may present every person mature in Christ."
Perhaps this is a good
message for us to hear during these changing times when our church has been
challenged to embrace the new call to be missionary disciples. Many of us may not be involved directly in
those initiatives to encourage the disengaged to be a part of our Catholic church,
but we can be supportive of them. We can
also be open to discover ways in which we can be indirectly involved in this
mission in the places where we are currently serving.
When I see church in this
way, it is something to which I want to belong, and also something I want to
share with others. Let’s pray for its
success, and also pray that we may discover how the Holy Spirit wishes to
involve us in the process.